REALITY CHECK

FOURTY ONE MORE DAYS TO GO…

Yes you read that right, it’s 41days, 15hours, 48minutes, 44seconds (as at the time I’m writing this post) to 2016!
Ok it would be unfair if I just start my post like that without introducing myself *big grin. Yes it’s me! The ghost writer! The one who disappears and re appears! And no I’m not back full time… I’m really sorry. Due to what writing does to me (makes me feel light hearted and well the rest is our little secret) I decided to write on reality check. I had a good night rest and I’m feeling super elated this morning. Well that’s what happens when you’re positive and expectant about certain milestones… I can almost taste the victory. So enough of me already let’s get down to the main talk.

I’m not here to put up any motivational speech or scold or advise, I’m just here because recently events have happened in my life, surrounding (and of course yours too) that has shaped me to believing anything can happen. Yes anything! and whatever it is that happens or has happened has the ability to shape us to who we are and what the future holds for us. I’m just here to encourage You, yes you, you who feel this year has been a waste or nothing has happened for you, no milestones no new beginnings no nothing!

Ok maybe I’d do a little motivational speech but hey! It’s coming from someone who is also going through life changing events so you’re not alone. I used to wonder why at the beginning of a year people make “new year resolutions” I used to do it, but trust me by February I have forgotten half of it..lol so I just mop along and wait for things to happen. Honestly living life without direction sucks! And the good news is, its never too late to start having a direction, Isn’t it realistic to say every new day is a new opportunity to start something new, you don’t have to wait till the start of a new year to make such resolutions. So here’s a few of mine which if it applies to you, you should adopt.

Ever felt like you’re stagnant? Nothing is happening for you? Yes I know you have and you feel oh the world is so so unfair to me and nothing good is happening? Then you just wake up and watch the news and see how people die daily? How your life is just awesome and how you have been ungrateful? So here’s what I’m going to do, not like I haven’t been appreciative of this life God has given me, I have, but I have doubted so many times the grace he has given to me to maximize it. So for the rest of this year I choose not to see the negative around me. I see milestones, I smell victory, I taste triumph….

And this is a very hard one, making a reality check of what you have achieved this year… sometimes your list can be empty… sometimes you don’t even consider some things worthy to be on your list… but we just have to find something or make something happen, something good… the clock is ticking…Tick tock… Tick tock…

I don’t have it all together neither am I perfect, it’s sort of annoying when some people think I have it all together…yea yea so I’m in this also and because I have written this doesn’t mean oh everything is perfect now, No it doesn’t work that way… but henceforth I strongly believe only good things are permitted to happen to me…

Till you get my notification in your mail box again… well Stay safe.