Hello… It’s me… I was wondering if after all these months you’d like to read again … Girls Talk… oh yes! It’s girls talk again! And I have a very interesting, and debative topic today. It’s a long read but it’s definitely worth your time. (if it’s not please comment but abuse me small lol ). Everyone’s opinion both male and female is welcome.
So I was just going through Nairaland’s topic and I came across this very interesting topic “Ladies Already made guy or young ambitious guy who would you date?”. A particular comment caught my attention and it was made by a male, he said:
” I’m not a lady but if I were one and have the option of dating a guy between a duo who possess equal attributes, I would go for the ready-made guy over the ambitious one.
Please, let’s be realistic. That we all kick against women who are materialistic doesn’t negate the importance of financial security and it essential role in a relationship or marriage. Does ambition pay bills?”
Interesting! Don’t you think? Well this topic is a broad topic, it’s a kind of topic where other topic arises from. From here now we can go on and talk about how women are materialistic or how girls of nowadays only want already made men, or how after suffering and toiling with your man and he eventually makes it he then begins to see faults in you, and that reminds me of this saying “Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man’s true character give him money and power”
One bitter truth is love doesn’t pay bills money does. So should a girl be criticized, looked upon as materialistic, thought of as a bad person if she only wants already made man?
Most people do say it’s better to suffer and toil with him so that when the money comes, when the breakthrough comes you would know you are entitled to all… really? Hmmmm
Another man’s leftover is another man’s perfect meal.. so what if you just meet an already made man who is everything to you and vice versa! And things work out just fine between you two, does it mean you are not entitled to all his breakthroughs?
Also one important lesson we must never forget is success comes and goes… no successful person lives in past glory. You can’t say because you hit millions today you won’t work hard to hit billions tomorrow… so if you meet your man “already made” who says you can’t channel him to being much more better… already made to better made to best made and so on.
This topic is so interesting I have read so many comments online which even resulted in arguments and exchange of words. But thank God for freedom of speech! Everyone is entitled to his or her opinion, but we(Yes you and me) often abuse this freedom by trying to force down our principles on other people, just because it didn’t work for you doesn’t mean it won’t work for me. In as much as we are all entitled to our opinions we should try not be to biased or because one girl has refused to date you because you can’t provide for her hence you’re now bitter (side eyes at you), most comment online oozes bitterness from guys who think no girl would ever give them (who are not ready made) a chance, that is not true. I don’t have statistics to prove this but I think 5 out of 10 girls would give an ambitious guy a chance in their life and 4 out of these 5 guys would mess things up(just saying).
Also 5 out of 10 already made guys act like demi-gods, making it so impossible for them to even see brighter future ahead, I wonder why girls stay with rich guys that act like their God( money you say? Hmmm). On the other hand, ambition is priceless. Little beginnings beget great things, the real men who work hard to be ready made all started from little beginnings so I put it to you again that ambition is priceless.
Either way, your views and opinions are welcomed… won’t it be nice if we have married people contribute to this too? Unbiased comments remember? And well if you want my own sincere contribution just read this post all over again *big grin
But honestly I’m indifferent…
And oh I’m not responsible for what you think about my contribution…
Please stay safe wherever you are.
Please check out previous hot topics here, these are topic that drew so much traffic to my blog when I first started.. well until I became lazy (*sadface). Please read, drop your comments and share! Thank you.